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Making resolutions for the new year may feel like a fresh start for some of us, but it might also be a formula for failure. When asked to identify what makes us happy, few of us can. The most important part of our life is finding happiness. We perform all our efforts for happiness, but we progressively drift away from it, and worry, anxiety, stress, and troubles surround us. Here are some tips for your happy contentment.
- Focus on your happiness: In each scenario, we have two choices: be happy or sad. Decide to choose happiness every time. “I shall be joyful and optimistic regardless of the scenario.” When we repeat this process, we progressively begin to react favorably. Being joyful becomes a habit, and habit becomes a part of our nature.
- Stop making comparisons: Have a strong desire to do anything. Achievement in the mind pulls us ahead to be ambitious, but its excess causes us to be dissatisfied and disappointed, much like sugar has a limit in tea, but if too much tea tastes bitter, do not compare. We are always comparing our circumstances to those of others, saying things like “I have a fantastic house, but he doesn’t, and I don’t” or “he looks great, but I don’t.”
- Maintain control of your happiness: We can be happy or sad, depending on how we think. We are not robots whose happiness and unhappiness are dictated by others. Don’t put your happiness in the hands of those who may satisfy you when you want it but make you sad when you don’t. The unsatisfied folks frequently blame others. As in: “This happened because of this,” “My action is responsible for this condition,” and “I am sad because of that.”
- Forget or ignore the little issues: To be happy, we must be open-minded; we cannot be happy if we don’t dismiss trivialities. So, ignore minor things.
- Stay present here and now: We are unhappy for two reasons: our history and our future. “The mantra to be joyful is simply to worry about tomorrow, not about tomorrow’s suffering.”
- Make time for yourself: Play your favorite game for a few minutes, have some fun with little kids, and spend some time in nature to release stress. In today’s Fast Life, Limited Time, and Unlimited Work, we don’t have time for ourselves, but to be happy, you must also spend time with yourself.
- Support others: We earn happiness and mental peace when we help others. We are ecstatic when we see how pleased someone is when we help them, whether it be financially, by supporting them in their endeavors, or by assisting someone else. Happiness will assist us in certain ways.
- Practice gratitude: If you are grateful for the individuals in your life, tell them how much you appreciate them. You may try beginning each day by expressing gratitude for one thing. With a little effort, you may even become more conscious of all the great things around you.
It may appear that you must first make certain individuals happy or achieve a specific objective before you can be happy, but happiness is about developing habits that allow you to find serenity and joy in your life. It may take some effort, but it is not impossible.
We hope this article has been helpful in finding what makes you happy. If you enjoyed reading it, check out some of our other writings while you’re here and in a reading mood.
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